7th July 2025
Thinking About Divorce? Your Key Questions Answered
Divorce can feel overwhelming. Even if the decision feels right, it’s natural to have questions and worries about what happens next. It is important to get divorce advice.
At Vyman Solicitors, we understand that no two relationships, families, or separations are the same. That’s why our family law team focuses on clear advice, compassionate support, and realistic guidance from start to finish.
Below, we answer some of the most common questions we’re asked by clients navigating separation or divorce:
“How much will divorce cost me?”
The cost of divorce varies depending on the complexity of your situation, such as whether finances and children are involved, and if matters are agreed or contested.
- The court fee to apply for divorce is currently £612
- If you reach agreement early, your costs can be minimised.
- If negotiation or guidance from the court is needed for finances or children, costs will be higher but we will always explain fees clearly and upfront.
Tip: The sooner you get legal advice, the more likely you are to avoid unnecessary costs.
“What are my rights when it comes to the children?”
You and your partner may both have parental responsibility but what that looks like in practice can vary.
You may be wondering:
- Who the children will live with
- How often the other parent will see them
- What happens during school holidays
- Who makes big decisions about education or medical care
Where possible, we help you reach a mutual agreement, which can be turned into a legally binding order without going to court.
If an agreement isn’t possible, the court can step in and decide based on what’s in the child’s best interests.
“Will I have to go to court?”
Not necessarily. In fact, most divorces don’t go to court.
If you can agree arrangements for finances and children, your solicitor can draft a Consent Order to be approved by a judge without the need for a hearing.
Only in cases where there is a dispute, non-cooperation, or safeguarding concerns would court involvement become necessary.
“Am I entitled to maintenance or a share of the assets?”
That depends on your individual circumstances including length of marriage, your financial needs, contributions and any children.
The court will look at:
- Property (joint and separate)
- Pensions
- Savings and investments
- Business interests
- Income and future earning capacity
In some cases, spousal maintenance may be appropriate. We’ll work with you to understand your entitlement and help you to negotiate a fair settlement.
“How long does the divorce process take?”
If uncontested, a divorce takes around 6–8 months under the current no-fault divorce law, which includes a mandatory 20-week reflection period.
If you’re also resolving finances or child arrangements, this may take longer but we aim to progress things as efficiently and amicably as possible.
“We’ve reached an agreement between ourselves – is it fair?”
Even if you’ve agreed everything informally, it’s important to get legal advice.
An agreement might feel “fair” now, but may not be balanced in law or could fall apart later. Our job is to make sure:
- It reflects your legal rights
- It protects you long-term
- It can be formalised by the court, so it’s enforceable
“What am I entitled to?”
There’s no fixed formula but the court will aim for fairness, taking into account both parties’ needs, the needs of any children, and the available assets.
Our solicitors can help you understand:
- Whether a 50/50 split applies in your case
- How pensions or businesses are valued
- What financial disclosure is needed
You’re not expected to know all the answers, that’s our role. What matters is that you’re informed before you agree to anything.
“We just want to keep things civil. Can we still use lawyers?”
Absolutely. In fact, working with a solicitor often helps keep things calm especially when emotions are running high.
We act as your voice, protect your interests, and guide you through every step with clarity and sensitivity.
Speak to Vyman’s Family Law Team in Confidence
Whether you’re just starting to consider separation or are ready to take legal steps, we’re here to help.
Our team, led by Zharna Sutaria, offers:
- Practical advice grounded in experience
- Empathy and understanding – not judgement
- Clear next steps, without pressure
📞 Call 020 8427 9080
📧 Email info@vyman.co.uk
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You’re not alone. And you don’t have to navigate this alone either.
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Disclaimer: This article is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal or financial advice. Professional advice should be sought for your specific circumstances.
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About Vyman Solicitors
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Disclaimer: This article is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice.
