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7th July 2025

How to Support Your Daughter or Son Through Divorce

By Zharna Sutaria, Head of Family Law at Vyman Solicitors.

When someone you love is facing divorce, it can be one of the most difficult things to watch, especially when that person is your daughter or son.

Supporting your son or daughter through divorce is essential.

As a parent, it’s natural to want to shield them from pain, offer advice or step in to fix things. But divorce is never just a legal process. It’s emotional. It’s overwhelming. And it often leaves people feeling lost.

I regularly speak to parents and family members who feel stuck, unsure of what to say, how to help, or where to begin. If this sounds like you, here are a few things to keep in mind:

1. Be present, not forceful

They might not always be ready to talk, and that’s okay. Let them set the pace. What they often need most is someone calm, available, and patient – not pressure to decide what comes next.

2. Keep judgment out of it

Whether they’ve chosen to leave or are on the receiving end of that decision, it’s important to withhold blame. This is a moment for listening, not opinions.

3. Encourage the right kind of support

Even if you’ve been through divorce yourself, your experience may be different. Professional advice from a solicitor who will handle matters sensitively and practically can make all the difference, especially when children, finances or shared property are involved.

4. If there are children involved…

This can be especially tough for grandparents. But remember, your role isn’t just to support or help your son or daughter through divorce – it’s to offer steadiness for the whole family. The law encourages separating parents to reach child-focused agreements without going to court. We can help them explore this route in a way that puts the children first.

5. It’s okay to reach out on their behalf

We’re always happy to have a conversation with a parent or loved one who wants to understand what’s ahead. Sometimes, that initial contact can take the pressure off and open the door for the right next step.

Here when you need us

Whether your daughter or son is at the start of this journey or further along, we’re here with the guidance, care and clarity they’ll need to move forward, legally and emotionally.

Get in touch.

📧 zharna.sutaria@vyman.co.uk

📞 020 8427 9080

About Vyman Solicitors

Located in North West London, Vyman Solicitors provides a comprehensive range of legal services, including Corporate & Commercial Property Law, Litigation, Residential and Conveyancing Law, Family Law, Private Client and Immigration. Known for its commitment to personalised client support and legal excellence, Vyman is a trusted partner for businesses and individuals alike.

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Disclaimer: This article is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice.

7th July 2025

Thinking About Divorce? Your Key Questions Answered

Divorce can feel overwhelming. Even if the decision feels right, it’s natural to have questions and worries about what happens next. It is important to get divorce advice.

At Vyman Solicitors, we understand that no two relationships, families, or separations are the same. That’s why our family law team focuses on clear advice, compassionate support, and realistic guidance from start to finish.

Below, we answer some of the most common questions we’re asked by clients navigating separation or divorce:

“How much will divorce cost me?”

The cost of divorce varies depending on the complexity of your situation, such as whether finances and children are involved, and if matters are agreed or contested.

The court fee to apply for divorce is currently £612
If you reach agreement early, your costs can be minimised.
If negotiation or guidance from the court is needed for finances or children, costs will be higher but we will always explain fees clearly and upfront.

Tip: The sooner you get legal advice, the more likely you are to avoid unnecessary costs.

“What are my rights when it comes to the children?”

You and your partner may both have parental responsibility but what that looks like in practice can vary.

You may be wondering:

Who the children will live with
How often the other parent will see them
What happens during school holidays
Who makes big decisions about education or medical care

Where possible, we help you reach a mutual agreement, which can be turned into a legally binding order without going to court.

If an agreement isn’t possible, the court can step in and decide based on what’s in the child’s best interests.

“Will I have to go to court?”

Not necessarily. In fact, most divorces don’t go to court.

If you can agree arrangements for finances and children, your solicitor can draft a Consent Order to be approved by a judge without the need for a hearing.

Only in cases where there is a dispute, non-cooperation, or safeguarding concerns would court involvement become necessary.

“Am I entitled to maintenance or a share of the assets?”

That depends on your individual circumstances including length of marriage, your financial needs, contributions and any children.

The court will look at:

Property (joint and separate)
Pensions
Savings and investments
Business interests
Income and future earning capacity

In some cases, spousal maintenance may be appropriate. We’ll work with you to understand your entitlement and help you to negotiate a fair settlement.

“How long does the divorce process take?”

If uncontested, a divorce takes around 6–8 months under the current no-fault divorce law, which includes a mandatory 20-week reflection period.

If you’re also resolving finances or child arrangements, this may take longer but we aim to progress things as efficiently and amicably as possible.

“We’ve reached an agreement between ourselves – is it fair?”

Even if you’ve agreed everything informally, it’s important to get legal advice.

An agreement might feel “fair” now, but may not be balanced in law or could fall apart later. Our job is to make sure:

It reflects your legal rights
It protects you long-term
It can be formalised by the court, so it’s enforceable

“What am I entitled to?”

There’s no fixed formula but the court will aim for fairness, taking into account both parties’ needs, the needs of any children, and the available assets.

Our solicitors can help you understand:

Whether a 50/50 split applies in your case
How pensions or businesses are valued
What financial disclosure is needed

You’re not expected to know all the answers, that’s our role. What matters is that you’re informed before you agree to anything.

“We just want to keep things civil. Can we still use lawyers?”

Absolutely. In fact, working with a solicitor often helps keep things calm especially when emotions are running high.

We act as your voice, protect your interests, and guide you through every step with clarity and sensitivity.

Speak to Vyman’s Family Law Team in Confidence

Whether you’re just starting to consider separation or are ready to take legal steps, we’re here to help.

Our team, led by Zharna Sutaria, offers:

Practical advice grounded in experience
Empathy and understanding – not judgement
Clear next steps, without pressure

📞 Call 020 8427 9080

📧 Email info@vyman.co.uk

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You’re not alone. And you don’t have to navigate this alone either.

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Disclaimer: This article is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal or financial advice. Professional advice should be sought for your specific circumstances.

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11th April 2025

The Growing Acceptance of Prenuptial Agreements Among Britons

Why clarity, fairness and forward planning are becoming essential considerations for modern couples.

Prenuptial agreements, once reserved for celebrities and high-net-worth individuals, are increasingly becoming mainstream in the UK. As financial arrangements between couples grow more complex and second marriages and blended families become more common, couples are seeking greater certainty. They are also looking for more protection through legal agreements. Many are turning to legal agreements prior to marriage for this security.

Recent findings from a 2025 YouGov poll indicate that 55% of Britons now support the use of prenuptial agreements—a notable increase from 42% just two years ago. This shift reflects a growing public recognition that responsible financial planning and emotional commitment are not mutually exclusive.

A Legal Tool for Modern Relationships

Prenuptial agreements in the UK are not currently binding in England and Wales. However, they carry significant weight in court decisions if entered into freely, with full disclosure. Both parties must have received independent legal advice, and the terms must be considered fair and reasonable.

The landmark Supreme Court case of Radmacher v Granatino [2010] established a precedent for courts to uphold such agreements where appropriate. In practice, a well-drafted prenuptial agreement can help minimise the risk of costly litigation and provide clarity for both parties.

Zharna Sutaria, Director and Head of Family Law at Vyman Solicitors, explains the evolving role of prenuptial agreements in family law:

“Prenuptial agreements are not about a lack of trust—they are about transparency, fairness, and preparedness. For many of our clients, they offer peace of mind and a structured approach to managing assets, particularly in the event of unforeseen change.”

Key Benefits of Prenuptial Agreements

Zharna outlines the most common reasons clients seek a prenuptial agreement:

Protection of Pre-Marital Assets: Clients who own property, operate a business, or hold substantial savings often wish to safeguard these assets in the event of a future separation.
Clarity in Divorce Proceedings: A prenup can limit financial uncertainty, reduce conflict, and streamline divorce proceedings, saving time and legal costs.
Provision for Children from Previous Relationships: Where individuals have children from prior partnerships, a prenup can help preserve their inheritance and ensure dependents are not disadvantaged.
Promoting Honest Financial Conversations: Discussing financial matters before marriage helps set expectations and fosters trust within the relationship.

What Should a Prenuptial Agreement Include?

To ensure enforceability, Zharna advises that any prenuptial agreement should include the following:

Comprehensive Financial Disclosure: Both parties should fully disclose all assets, liabilities, income, and interests.
Tailored Provisions: A prenuptial agreement must be bespoke to the couple’s circumstances. Generic templates often fall short of legal scrutiny.
Independent Legal Advice: Each party should be represented by their own solicitor to ensure the agreement is entered into freely and with a full understanding of its implications.
Timely Execution: The agreement should ideally be finalised at least 28 days before the wedding to avoid any claims of duress.

As public attitudes shift and legal precedent strengthens, prenuptial agreements are becoming increasingly important. They are now a vital part of relationship planning for couples who value clarity and fairness. While not appropriate in all circumstances, prenuptial agreements offer a practical framework for financial certainty. For many, they also provide emotional reassurance.

Contact Our Family Law Experts

At Vyman Solicitors, our Family Law team provides discreet, expert advice tailored to your personal and financial circumstances. Whether you are considering marriage or seeking postnuptial arrangements, we are here to ensure your interests are protected.

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31st January 2025

Divorce and Its Impact on Children: Prioritising Their Well-Being

Divorce is one of the most challenging crossroads a family can face, especially when children are involved. At Vyman Solicitors we know that managing a divorce is not just about paperwork or financial settlements; it’s about ensuring that the emotional and psychological well-being of your children remains intact. High-net-worth individuals and families with significant assets often face added layers of complexity, making it critical to approach this journey with precision and care. It’s best to seek legal divorce advice from UK expert lawyers.

The Impact of Divorce on Children

Divorce reshapes a child’s world. They often experience confusion, sadness, or anger, as their sense of stability and security is disrupted. For children in wealthy families, the stakes can be higher as disputes over significant assets, properties, and lifestyles add stress to an already challenging situation.

If not handled carefully, the emotional toll on children can leave lasting effects, influencing their trust, relationships, and sense of self as they grow.

Leading with Empathy and Structure

At Vyman, we believe that approaching a divorce or separation with a calculated, yet empathetic strategy can make all the difference. Below is some guidance we champion where children may be involved:

1. Keep Children at the Heart of Decisions

Your children’s needs and well-being should dictate your decisions. Avoid using them as messengers or witnesses to adult disputes. Their stability must remain a constant.

2. Communication is Key

Tailor your explanations to their age and maturity. Reassure them that they are loved unconditionally and that both parents remain a constant presence in their lives.

3. Stability is Vital

Maintain routines wherever possible. Children thrive on predictability, so keeping their daily lives as unchanged as possible can provide a crucial anchor.

4. Avoid Quick Fixes

Throwing money at the situation, whether through gifts or extravagant outings, is a common pitfall. Genuine emotional support and quality time with your children matter far more.

5. Plan with Expert Support

Divorces often involve complex arrangements. A trusted legal partner who shares your goals can help ensure that the process is smooth, efficient, and in your children’s best interests.

Zharna Sutaria, Solicitor and Head of Family Law

“As legal professionals, we understand that every case is different, but the priority remains the same—ensuring children are shielded from unnecessary conflict. Our strategic focus is on achieving the best outcomes for families, particularly for the children, while safeguarding their emotional stability and future.”

Why Choose Vyman Solicitors?

When you work with us, you’re choosing a team that doesn’t just handle cases but takes charge. We anticipate challenges, strategize solutions, and secure outcomes that aim to prioritise your children’s needs. Divorce doesn’t have to be a battlefield. With the right guidance, you can achieve a resolution that benefits everyone involved.

So, it’s better to seek divorce legal advice from top UK lawyers at Vyman Solicitors.

If you’re facing a divorce and need a team that delivers results while protecting what matters most, reach out to Vyman Solicitors.

Let us lead you through this time with professionalism, discretion, and unwavering focus.

31st January 2025

Lessons from High-Profile Divorces – Insights from Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie’s Divorce

The conclusion of Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie divorce saga offers valuable lessons for anyone facing complex family law challenges. While their case involved unparalleled media scrutiny, it highlights common issues in high-stakes divorces—particularly for high-net-worth individuals managing significant assets and custody arrangements. Here, our Family Law team unpacks key takeaways and offers expert advice tailored for those in similar situations.

Protracted Proceedings: The Hidden Costs

The extended timeline of the Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie divorce underscores the strain that drawn-out cases can place on families. Beyond emotional fatigue, prolonged disputes can escalate legal fees and disrupt children’s stability.

Our Approach: At Vyman Solicitors, we prioritise efficiency without compromising on outcomes. Strategic, timely action helps ensure that proceedings progress smoothly, safeguarding both financial and personal interests.

Custody Battles: Protecting Children’s Well-being

Contentious custody arrangements were a central feature of the Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie case, with allegations and appeals prolonging the resolution. Custody disputes often require balancing parental rights with the paramount importance of a child’s welfare.

Our Approach: We place children’s needs at the heart of our strategy. By focusing on practical, child-centred solutions, we aim to minimise conflict and promote stability during a challenging time for families.

Managing Complex Financial Settlements

From shared properties to business interests, the financial intricacies of a high-value divorce demand expert handling. Although the details of the Pitt-Jolie settlement remain private, it’s clear that robust legal and financial strategies are critical.

Our Approach: We specialise in navigating high-value settlements, offering access to financial planning advice from specialists and expert negotiation. Whether dealing with investments, property portfolios, or business valuations, we ensure fair and comprehensive resolutions that protect your future.

Professionalism: Maintaining Dignity During Divorce

Jolie’s commitment to professionalism, and avoiding negative public commentary, is a reminder of the importance of respect throughout legal proceedings.

Our Approach: By focusing on constructive communication and pragmatic solutions, we help reduce unnecessary conflict, creating a foundation for smoother outcomes.

Why Choose Vyman Solicitors?

Our Family Law team specialises in high-value divorce cases and complex children arrangements. We don’t just handle cases; we deliver results. With extensive expertise, a tailored approach, and a commitment to achieving optimal outcomes, we are the trusted partner for high-net-worth clients navigating life’s most significant legal challenges.

Contact Us

If you are managing significant assets or facing family law challenges, our team is ready to provide expert advice with discretion and professionalism. Contact us for a confidential consultation and take the first step toward securing your future.

10th December 2024

From Trainee to Solicitor – Minoli’s Inspiring Journey in Family Law at Vyman Solicitors

At Vyman Solicitors, we celebrate the achievements of our team members who embody the core values of our firm. One such success story is Minoli Vehella, a newly qualified solicitor in our Family Law Department. Minoli’s journey from trainee to solicitor showcases her dedication, resilience, and passion for making a real difference in people’s lives.

“I wanted to pursue an area of law that truly made a difference in people’s lives, and Family Law does exactly that,” shares Minoli. Her commitment to delivering tailored, compassionate support has been at the heart of her work since joining Vyman in 2021.

Finding Her Path in Family Law

Minoli’s legal journey began at Cardiff University, where she graduated in 2019. She then completed her LPC at BPP University during the challenges of the COVID-19 pandemic. After gaining initial experience in conveyancing, Minoli realised she wanted to work in an area of law that aligned more closely with her aspirations.

“I enjoyed conveyancing, but something felt missing,” she reflects. “Family Law ticks all the boxes—it’s dynamic, challenging and ultimately about helping people when they need it most.“

Joining Vyman Solicitors through the acquisition of The Sethi Partnership Solicitors, Minoli quickly embraced the complexities of Family Law.

Challenges in Minoli Vehella’s Family Law Journey

Stepping into the Family Department at Vyman, Minoli found herself juggling heavily contested proceedings, often managing cases involving sensitive issues such as child welfare and financial disputes.

“Being the only Trainee in the Family Department at one point taught me how to handle high-pressure situations and manage my time effectively,” says Minoli.

She credits these experiences with helping her build essential skills such as prioritisation, clear communication, and adaptability. “I learned to communicate effectively with my supervisors to ensure deadlines were met and that I could balance my workload without feeling overwhelmed.“

Support and Mentorship at Vyman

Minoli’s growth was nurtured by the mentorship of senior colleagues like Shreeti Rajdev, whose extensive experience in Family Law provided invaluable guidance.

“Shreeti has a wealth of knowledge, and working under her wing has been an invaluable experience,” Minoli shares.

She also gained valuable insights by assisting Zharna Sutaria, Head of the Family Law Department, and other team members. This exposure allowed her to learn various approaches to legal practice and develop her own style.

A Word from Zharna

“Minoli has shown incredible commitment and adaptability during her time at Vyman. Her ability to handle sensitive cases with professionalism and empathy is remarkable. She is a vital part of our Family Law team, and I’m excited to see her continue to grow and succeed,” says Zharna Sutaria, Head of Family Law.

Defining Moments and Achievements

Minoli has worked on numerous cases that have shaped her understanding of Family Law. From managing complex financial disputes to attending hearings, she has consistently demonstrated her ability to provide practical, client-focused solutions.

“I’ve loved attending court hearings and seeing all the hard work we’ve put into a case come to fruition. Watching a client’s relief when their case is resolved is incredibly rewarding,“ she shares.

Her ability to tailor her advice to each client’s unique needs has been a standout quality. “No two cases are the same in Family Law. Learning to adapt my advice and approach has been a valuable skill,“ she adds.

Advice for Aspiring Solicitors

Minoli encourages those starting their legal careers to choose a field they are passionate about: “Pick an area of law you’re passionate about—don’t choose something just for the sake of it. Your enthusiasm for a particular field will shine through and make a real difference.“

Looking Ahead

As a newly qualified solicitor, Minoli is excited about the next phase of her career. “I’m looking forward to taking on more responsibility, managing cases from start to finish, and continuing to grow in Family Law. Networking and building my profile are also priorities for me,“ she says.

Join the Vyman Team

Inspired by Minoli’s story? Our two-week Summer Placement Programme is now open for applications, offering aspiring solicitors a chance to gain hands-on experience with our team.

We’re also hiring Paralegals—an excellent opportunity to start your legal career and join a supportive and dynamic environment.

Visit our Careers Page to learn more and take the first step towards a rewarding future with Vyman Solicitors, based in North West London, with excellent transport links from Buckinghamshire, Berkshire, and Hertfordshire.

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10th December 2024

The Importance of Transparency in Divorce Proceedings

Transparency in divorce proceedings is crucial to achieving a fair resolution. Divorce is often an emotional and challenging time, and ensuring honesty in asset division protects everyone’s interests. At Vyman Solicitors, we understand how overwhelming this process can feel, especially if you believe you’re not being treated fairly. Our team has significant experience in dealing with complex financial remedy cases, supporting clients through these challenges with care and professionalism.

A Real-Life Example of Non-Compliance

In the recent case of Williams v Williams [2023] EWHC 3098 (Fam). Moor J, the court dealt with a husband who refused to disclose his financial situation fully. He failed to comply with court orders, avoided hearings, and gave false evidence about his assets.

The result?

Assumed Hidden Wealth: The court made an educated guess about the husband’s wealth, based on adverse inferences, and valued his estate much higher than his disclosed amount.
Fair Asset Division: The wife was awarded 50% of the £50 million estate, a figure partly based on the court’s conclusions about hidden assets.
Loss of Credibility: The husband’s dishonesty damaged his case and left him unable to challenge the court’s decisions effectively.

This case demonstrates the significant consequences of non-compliance. Not only does dishonesty erode trust in the process, but it can also lead to unfavourable legal and financial outcomes.

Why Transparency Is Crucial

Being transparent in financial remedy proceedings ensures:

Fairness in Asset Division: Full disclosure enables the court to divide assets fairly and equitably.
Strengthened Credibility: Honesty fosters trust with the court, showing respect for the legal process.
Avoidance of Penalties: Non-disclosure can lead to financial penalties, assumptions of hidden wealth, and a smaller share of assets.

How Vyman Solicitors Can Support You

We know how stressful and unfair it can feel to face dishonesty in divorce proceedings. That’s why we are here to help. At Vyman Solicitors, we advocate for transparency in divorce proceedings to ensure fair outcomes for our clients

Our experienced Family Law team specialises in handling complex cases involving:

High-value estates
Hidden or undisclosed assets
Complicated business structures
Evasive or non-compliant parties

We work closely with our clients to uncover the facts, present a strong case, and ensure your voice is heard. From start to finish, we provide compassionate support to help you achieve the best possible outcome.

Need Legal Support?

If you’re dealing with a challenging divorce or financial remedy case, let Vyman Solicitors provide the guidance and support you need.

Contact our Family Team at info@vyman.co.uk or call 020 3926 6987 to arrange a confidential consultation.

You deserve fairness and transparency. Let us help you take the next step with confidence.

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10th December 2024

Labour’s Tax Reforms – Impact on Inheritance, Divorce & Family Wealth

The Labour Party’s first budget in over a decade has introduced significant changes to Inheritance Tax (IHT) and Capital Gains Tax (CGT), with wide-reaching implications for families across the UK. These reforms, set to take effect in April 2026, could profoundly impact how wealth is transferred, how estates are planned, and how family assets are divided during divorce.

If you’re planning your family’s financial future or navigating the complexities of a divorce, these changes may require a fresh look at your legal and estate planning strategies.

What’s Changing? The Key Tax Reforms

The upcoming budget has sparked conversations about the potential effects on business and property disposals, estate planning, and family wealth transfer. Key changes include:

New Tax Treatments for Business and Agricultural Reliefs: Revisions to IHT and CGT reliefs could change the way assets such as farmland and business properties are taxed, impacting long-term wealth planning.
Inclusion of Pensions in Estates for IHT: For the first time, pensions may be considered part of an estate for IHT purposes, potentially increasing tax liabilities for families.

These changes make it essential to rethink how assets are managed, whether for legacy planning or during major life events such as marriage or divorce.

What This Means for Divorce and Family Wealth

Under the laws of England and Wales, all assets—including inheritance and family gifts—are considered in divorce settlements. Whether these assets are shared or ringfenced depends on factors like:

Timing: When the asset was received.
Use: How it was utilised during the marriage.
Needs: Whether the couple’s reasonable needs can be met without dividing the asset.

Courts may allow certain inherited assets to remain untouched, but this is far from guaranteed. With the UK divorce rate still above 40%, the changes to tax reliefs add complexity to an already challenging process.

How Nuptial Agreements Can Help Protect Wealth

The evolving tax landscape highlights the value of prenuptial and postnuptial agreements as tools for safeguarding family wealth. These agreements:

Clearly outline how assets, including family gifts and inheritances, will be handled during divorce.
Offer an added layer of protection for wealth transferred under IHT rules.
Complement estate planning strategies by helping to preserve family legacies.

While not legally binding, courts give significant weight to well-drafted nuptial agreements, especially when they are fair and created with independent legal advice.

Why Acting Now is Crucial

The new tax rules are a wake-up call for families to review and update their estate and wealth management plans. Proactive planning can ensure that your assets are protected and that you and your loved ones are prepared for any potential changes in tax liabilities or financial obligations.

How Vyman Solicitors Can Support You

At Vyman Solicitors, our Family Law and Private Client teams specialise in helping individuals and families navigate these complex issues. Whether you’re facing a divorce, planning for future wealth transfers, or considering a nuptial agreement, we’re here to provide expert advice tailored to your needs.

Our services include:

Assisting with the drafting and implementation of prenuptial and postnuptial agreements.
Providing clear guidance on the implications of IHT and CGT changes for family wealth.
Supporting clients through sensitive divorce proceedings to achieve fair outcomes.
Reviewing estate plans to align with new tax regulations.

Take Action Today

The changes to IHT and CGT are coming fast, and early preparation is key. Whether you’re planning your family’s legacy or navigating the complexities of a divorce, now is the time to act.

Contact us today at info@vyman.co.uk or call 020 3926 6987 to schedule a consultation with our expert team.

Let us help you protect what matters most.

By acting now, you can ensure that your family wealth remains secure and your future plans stay on track.

At Vyman Solicitors, we’re here to guide you every step of the way.